Naturally Dreamy

A blog about my life as a mostly INFP living with an ESFJ, INTJ, and my pup. I blog about earth-friendly living and life through my eyes – not necessarily in that order. Come put your feet up where life is Naturally Dreamy!


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Right in the feelings!

It’s good to feel. Even hurt.

When you feel hurt, remember the other people who cause you to have feelings. Remember how they care about how you are feeling and care if you are hurt.

Then the hurt isn’t so bad, eh? Not with that balancing out. And you remember feeling is good. What you feel is not permanent, they fluctuate and spin changing to circumstances and situations. It’s good to feel; remembering that they change is an aid to balance a deep hurt or joy, not to banish it.

Just some INFP thoughts on this early night… 🙂

 


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Just overflowing with Positivity Over Here

I wasn’t aware of it, but it looks like the universe is telling me I’m taking everything pretty positively. I got a terrific e-mail from my friend, and she mentioned it. I asked BT and I pointed out the most “morbid” and “downer” parts of my sad post, and he was like, well yeah! You NEVER mentioned the fact that she like DIED.

I thought it was pretty funny because I was concerned about being so morose and morbid. I’m glad that it didn’t come off that way – at least to BT.

And my Pandora station is telling me this too.

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Answers and Desires

I tried writing normal posts today. I tried so hard. Eventually I decided to write what is bottled up in my head. Plus, as said below, I didn’t think any of them were good to publish. It was a hard blogging challenge topic today! Fun, but hard. Warning: the below gets into some heady stuff…. Feel free not to read… Friends and family, you guys are great… I hope if you read this it doesn’t change your perception of me. By the way, this is the darkest my head gets, I just wrote out my feelings and questions, in order and lightly edited them, and somehow I don’t think that it is actually all that dark…

(play while you read if you want to hear what I was listening to while typing part of this – it’s pretty good for expressing in music what I was feeling, but the lyrics have nothing to do with it. Actually, I have heard this song multiple times, and still don’t know what it means…)

I want to bawl (n. a loud unrestrained shout) about the injustices and evil that has happened to me.

I want to be able to post comments I write knowing that it will be good for them.

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